Family matters… and so does the definition. Some may consider
families to be anyone they trust or see frequently, while others wouldn’t even
consider those of direct blood line, family. If you look at the official Webster dictionary
definition it gives multiple meanings.
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“The collective body of persons who live in one
house, and under one head or manager; a household including parents, children
and servants….”
·
“A group comprising a husband and wife and their
dependent children, constituting a fundamental unit in the organization of
society…
·
“A group of kindred or closely related
individuals..”
(http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/Family)
But I’d dare say that there is a lot more to the
family then just blood relation, or living in the same house.
Here are some brief points or elements of a family.
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Fundamental unit of society
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Blood relations-common ancestry
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People who love each other
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Those you grew up with
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A support group
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A divine (God instructed) organization
Yet… there is still something more. A family is more than
just the outside curtain of what the world sees or what a dictionary says.
Referencing the Family
Proclamation to the World it says the following:
“…The divine plan of happiness
enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave. Sacred
ordinances and covenants available in holy temples make it possible for
individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united
eternally…
“We…declare that God has commanded
that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and
woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife…Husband and
wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and
for their children….[and] will be held accountable before God for the discharge
of these obligations.
“The family
is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal
plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be
reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity.
Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the
teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ.”
(https://www.lds.org/topics/family-proclamation?lang=eng)
I fully believe that “heaven is the
continuation of the ideal home.” Because families are ordained (established,
set apart) by God, they are truly the most important unit (or rather bond) now,
and for eternity. Here is one of my favorite links that talks about this: http://mormon.org/family
Got this post in my inbox. Took it to Strengthening Marriage class at church Sunday. Thought the instructor sent it. It was so pertinent to the lesson. Was baffled over how I got on the mailing list since the instructor didn't know anything about it. Laughed just now when I realized whose blog I opted to follow a couple of weeks back. Anyway, thanks for the inspiration! Webster's 1828 dictionary defines family as those who descend from one common progenitor. Can gays be family? The definition of the family unit matters if the unit is ordained of God.I believe it has to do with covenant as much as it has to do with ancestry. Love, Mom
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